fire() and fire_and_forget() scheduled delivery with bare create_task()/
loop.create_task() and kept no reference. asyncio holds only a weak reference to
a task, so the GC could collect a delivery (or the fire() coroutine itself)
before it completed, silently dropping the webhook.
Track in-flight tasks in a set on the manager via a _spawn_tracked() helper that
holds a strong reference for the task's lifetime and discards it on completion
(add_done_callback), and route both schedule sites through it.
Adds tests/test_webhook_task_refs.py.
Mazen Tamer Salah